JR Late Night Straight to the Point POV
Today, we had our seminar about Human Sexuality in school. I was actually tired beforehand and decided not to go but because of a "compulsary" state of the activity, I am definitely going to the activity to avoid being uncleared at the end of the school year.
Ahm... Let me see and recall about the different things I learned in the activity. The seminar we had today was about Human Sexuality. As I was listening to the speakers in the seminar, I got some short simple notes and facts that I learned. I listed some of the fallacies we record as fact and some facts we take as fallacies. Let us take at JR’s 10 Point Sexuality POV:
1
FALLACY: Human Sexuality is all about the action of Sex itself
FACT: Human Sexuality is not just the action of sex; it is also about the way of living of the different human beings inhabiting this very world we are living in. In this world, people act on different things whether it maybe according to their belief, perspective and sex. If you are a guy, then you act the way an average male acts. If you are a lady, then you act the way an average female acts. The fact is that Human Sexuality refers to the whole being of a person and not just the action of sex itself.
2
FALLACY: There are 6 Types of Sexes in the Human World
FACT: Actually there are only two types of sexes in the human world, the male and the female. As I listened carefully to the third speaker in the seminar, he stated to us that there is a huge difference between the terms gender and sex. Sex refers to the whole being of a person when he/she was born. Gender refers to the way how a person thinks and believes who he/she is. If you are a guy, they you believe that you are a guy. If you are a guy who believes that you are a girl, then you believe that you are gay. There are 6 Types of Genders in the Human World: (1) Male, (2) Female, (3) Lesbian, (4) Effeminate, (5) Bisexual, and (6) Metrosexual. The fact is that there are 2 Types of Sexes and 6 Types of Genders.
3
FALLACY: SEX IS ONLY LIMITED TO THE GENITAL FACTOR
FACT: Sex is not just limited to the genitals. It is also in our hearts and minds. By the way a person thinks and acts, determines what sex really is. Like stated earlier in the fact at Fallacy 1, a guy acts according to his nature and a lady acts according to her nature. Once he/she falls in love with the opposite sex, then he/she is already engaging in sex through their hearts. The fact is that sex in not just the action it is also the emotional and physical responses of a person to his/her surroundings.
4
FALLACY: PREMARITAL SEX IS NORMAL, IT IS NOT A CRIME
FACT: As the Ten Commandments of the Catholic and Christian context states, "Thou shalt not commit adultery" and "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife" this fallacy is truly false. In the American and British culture, it is just normal for a couple to engage in sex if they want to. But considering the Catholic and Christian contexts, premarital sex is prohibited and banned. Catholics and Christians believe that sex is only meant for married couples. Sex is a gift of God to humans to proliferate their species here on earth. All of us must remember that sex is not purely for pleasure but for proliferation of life. The fact is that premarital sex is a crime since it is a sacred gift by God for couples who are already married.
5
FALLACY: THE MALE IS THE ONE WHO DECIDES ON HAVING SEX OR NOT
FACT: In the seminar, it was stated that most men tend to ask for their love one to have sex with them to show their love for each other. It is actually the whole couple who is deciding on this type of situation. Let us remember that men are not superior to women in our present time. Both are now at the same level and at the same freedom. All are unique individuals who are free to decide with their own perspective and opinion. Males are not just the ones deciding for this situation. Both the male and the female are encouraged to share their opinions to each other. The fact is that both the male and the female are deciding on whether they can have sex or not.
6
FALLACY: PREGNANCY IS NOT A SERIOUS MATTER
FACT: Actually, pregnancy is a serious matter. If ever a couple engage in sex, then they should expect that they may have a baby after it. Babies are the product of the sperm cell entering the egg cell of a woman. If ever a couple produces a baby, then they should be serious in handling it and caring for it. Pregnancy is a matter of life and death. If a couple doesn't mind the baby, then the couple might also face different charges from the government. Charges such as abortion, murder, and improper caring resulting to physical and life damages. If we are given the gift of life, then the future generation of the next children in line should also expect to enjoy their gift of life. The fact is that pregnancy is a very serious matter.
7
FALLACY: PREGNANCY IS A BAD NEWS
FACT: "Honey, I have bad news for you. I am pregnant", said the woman in the short movie presented to us in the seminar. Pregnancy is not actually bad news but it is good news especially for a married couple. If ever an unmarried couple engage in unprotected sex, then they should expect to have a baby in return. Life is not just given to us by chance but it is given to us by the product of labor and love by two persons. If there is no love between the persons who engage in sex, then pregnancy is truly a bad news. The fact is that pregnancy is a good news for two persons who love each other; bad news for two persons unaware of their love for each other.
8
FALLACY: LOVE IS TRULY SHOWN IF SEX IS GIVEN
FACT: Love is not just shown through sex. Love is shown in many different ways. If a man asks for sex to show if you love him, then just say "no" and show your love by just doing other things which would definitely make him happy. If a woman asks for sex to show if you love her, then just say "no" and show your love by just dating her in different places which she likes. A man and a woman does not just show love by sex but they also show love by their actions and gifts to each other. Let us remember that virginity is the best gift a person can give to his/her special someone in case they are already married. Don't sacrifice your virginity if you are still not married. Just be cool and do what is right if ever faced with a "sex as a form of love" situation. The fact is that true love is shown by acting to what is right for your couple.
9
FALLACY: SEX IS A SOURCE OF RECREATION
FACT: Actually not. Sex is not a source of excitement and fun. Sex is the act of showing the love of a person for someone. If ever a person wants to show his/her love for his/her husband or wife, then the couple can show it through sex but it is truly different to teenagers like us. Teenagers must take sex as a serious matter. If ever they lose their virginity in an early age, then they would be regarded as "dirty" by other people. Sex is not just for fun but it is for recognizing the love of a couple for each other. The fact is that sex is a way expressing love between a couple.
10
FALLACY: LOVE IS THE BEST ACHIEVEMENT A MAN AND A WOMAN HAVE
FACT: And finally, Fallacy 10. Just a simple improvement with the fallacy; The fact is that love is one of the best achievement any person can have. It is not the best but it is one of the best.
Alright, that is it for JR Late Night Straight to the Point POV
I am JR, Good Night :)
Note: JR recognizes http://media.photobucket.com/image/heart%20dividers/Babycakes72_photos/DIVIDERS/Heart-Divider1.png?o=5 as the source for the dividers used in this blog.
September 18 2010 (6PM)
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